The Big boss season 14 is in its final leg. The two people who seem most likely to win the show are Rubina Dilaik and Rahul Vaidya. While Rubina Dilaik has appeared to be seen as a strong headed woman in the house who knows what is right and wrong, Rahul Vaidya is seen as someone who is emotional and slightly mellow. Both have displayed characteristics that are appealing to different senses.

Who is going to win Big boss 14?

Answering this question is difficult at this moment. Though I feel it’s Rubina Dilaik who has greater chances of winning the Big Boss. She seems to have captured the imagination of general public. She has a vocal personality and she is a great communicator. That is her strength as well as her weakness. She has kept herself open in the show in terms of sharing her turbulent relationship and also wore her dominant personality on her sleeve.

Who should win Big boss14?

I would want Rahul Vaidya to be the winner of Big Boss 14. He seems to be more correct to me than Rubina Dilaik. When I say correct, I don’t mean about being real or being expressive, or being outspoken. I think both Rubina Dilaik and Rahul Vaidya have been good at expressing themselves, it’s just that Rahul Vaidya is more behaviorally correct.

What do you mean by being behaviorally correct?

Everyone knows that Rubina Dilaik has impeccable communication skills. However, the problem is that she thinks having great communication skills is the key to solving all the problems in life. She fails to understand that understanding someone and being able to set aside your ego are bigger virtues than communication. That, I think is the primary reason she has problems in her personal life too.

What does the winner of Big boss 14 tell us about the audience preference?

Aside from the fact that the voting is driven largely by their followers, who blindly follow them, if people genuinely vote for Rubina Dilaik, it once again proves that we value communication over everything else. Communication which is just a tool to conduct yourself takes precedence over who you actually are. Appearing to be correct is more important than being actually correct. A strong personality is more appealing than an average personality. Nobody bothers to seek underneath the exterior. Nobody wants to study further.

Is Rubina Dialik suffering from superiority complex?

I don’t think having a superiority complex is a problem. It is when you make people feel inferior is when you are going wrong. Rubina Dilaik is very comfortable with words and has an enviable vocabulary. When she puts her point across, it is usually loaded with wisdom that she may have gathered in her life. Obviously, people who don’t have the gift of gab, might think of her having superiority complex. So, it might be wrong at times to say that she has a superiority complex. The actual problem is using a rich communication to justify a plain wrong. That she often does. It is like using your favorite tool, that you are so good at, even when it is not required, and when it simply won’t work. Its like using a sword every time when a needle would do the job rather. This puts thinking people off.

Is Rahul Vaidya a deserving winner of big boss 14?

Among the current lot, yes, he is. He might have gone out of the house in a weak moment, but he has shown good game throughout. Moreover, like I said, he is behaviorally correct. He has made good relationships in the house, but the problem is again of personality. He is not as strong as Rubina Dilaik. He doesn’t have the personal problems that make people root for him. To put it simply, his journey is not as dramatic as that of Rubina Dilaik. And I fear, people like drama more than simplicity.

Do you think Big boss is just a show where people are not real, and you can’t make any assumptions about their personality based on what they do in the show?

First things first, Big boss is not scripted. It is a show where different people are put together in a house and yes there is a price money, so their behavior is tuned towards this larger objective of winning the price amount. But real life is also like that, you always want to win something (money, growth, respect, promotion, pride, ego etc.), and our behavior is always, even though subconsciously, driven towards achieving this goal. Big boss simply makes this objective clearer. The people who are in the show and the way they behave is exactly how they would behave when they are out of the show, if put in a difficult situation. Big boss can be a very good lesson in sociology where you know how people can behave when the stakes are high. Didn’t you see people fighting when they tried hoarding for sanitizers, and toilet rolls when COVID 19 was at its peak. Those were very sane people with sane minds put in a tough situation. We don’t call that scripted right?